One thing that people have failed to discuss here is a interesting discovery I made when asking one of my friends who said he was bi how many men he had slept with.
He has not had sex with any man. He's given them head but thats all, no further. Now to me, I don't think that really defines him as bi. I would say he is confused about his sexuality but too chicken to go the whole way.
At the end of the day, there have always been gay and straight people. I don't really have a problem with gay people, unless they have that infuriating "LOOK AT ME" attitude which involves them being as loudly camp as possible, for no other reason than to seek attention. I've often wondered, how many gay men become gay due to their upbringing.
Still at the end of the day, people like having sex and they can sleep with any consenting partner that they choose. But I still think that sex is alot more fun with someone you care about, not just because it stops being the awkward post sex conversations (if you stay that long), but also because knowing someone intimately as well as physically, gives sex that extra dimension.
One thing I feel sad about though, is gay men that know they are gay getting married and having kids and then deciding they want to be gay and destroying the family environment, not to mention the head fuck it must be for the kids and the feelings of inadequacy for the wife.
The sad thing about men is, they can't get preganant, they don't have to be responsible for helping bring up a child, they can fuck off and get away with it. However, thats nothing to do with being gay, its a whole separate issue.
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