Just a thought but this sort of situation can occur for several reasons.
The main reason you have not thought of is that Lee has feelings for Jen and is really jealous that you are with her.
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In some ways im annoyed that lee cant just be happy for me but I understand what its like when a good friend just dissapears for weeks on end because he's always with his girlfriend.
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I think thats your main problem though. He feels rejected and left out. Maybe try and do something social together, with a few other people too that doesn't just involve the pub. He might be feeling lonely and frustrated that he doesn't have a girlfriend.
I think this situation happens quite often with lads. One of my former boyfriends just did not get the balance right and it ended up with his friends being around the whole time and not having any time together. When I tried to argue that I wanted some "quality" time with him e.g. one evening - things got pretty nasty and two of his friends started bitching about me. Ironicly when we split up one of those friends was actually sad about because he realised I wasn't such a bitch after all.

Men are fickle sometimes! Maybe you should spend half the day with Lee and half with your girlee if they can't handle being around each other.