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Originally Posted by Professor Cool
are you sure she broke up with the guy
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Yup, I was in the room when she talked to him about it. If that's not enough, HIS ex is trying to get back together with him, and although this is kinda rude of him, he stopped feeling bad about being dumped when he found out his ex wanted him back. He's just as stuck on her as I am on mine.
[quote[Something like this scenario happen to me, but it the turn of event, she wanted this guy, the guy was just looking for some sex, and so she had nowhere to go but back to me. She told me she dumped him for me, but after hearing from several people including her own friends, it was the exact opposite, the thing went to hell after that. And there was now two more bitter singles out there. Do I feel sorry for her, not really. Do I miss being with her, a little, i need the company...[/quote]
One of the things that flattered me is that she said the main reason she was attracted to him was that he resembled me in a LOT of ways. It never got past first base, but she admits that when she kissed him, she saw MY face.
Another reason I'm being so patient is because she IS about to crack. All of her friends admit having crushes (if you will) on me, and yet they're telling her that the only guy she needs to be with is me. Alas, it's things like this that make me prefer being friends with the female gender. Because incidentally, all the GUYS say she shouldn't, but these are all guys that are more or less known for wanting her themselves.
As far as sex is concerned.. Being as she wasn't technically dating me if she DID with him, and that's the biggest IF there ever was, then why'd she come running back? I mean, I didn't have to talk her into cheating on him with me. She did that of her own volition. I can't say I didn't see it coming because earlier that night I overheard her saying "There's only one man I'd ever cheat with, and that's Daniel" (that's me if you haven't figured it out)
And after they broke up it happened again. And again. Not EVERY night since then, but I'd say maybe 3 out of the past 5 nights. A little history is needed... she'd only been with 2 guys before we dated sexually, but after we started dating and we did for the first time, it was a more or less 5 times a week thing. Maybe she's spoiled on me
The thing is though, this woman has a rep for being BRUTALLY honest, ie if I got a stupid haircut, she'd point it out. That's a weak example, but she HAS proven to me that I CAN trust her. She does HURT me, but she has done NOTHING to break that trust. She says she has not had sex with anyone but me since we broke up, I believe it.
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