Totally totally used

[CaptainBubba]

Girls: If I have sex with him then we have a relationship.

Most Men: If I have sex with her then I will get to have sex.

I hate girls that presume sex means anything other than sex.

Unless you are already in a steady dedicated and loving relationship with someone sex means nothing to the male. Men who are not assholes will not have sex with you unless you push them too or unless the emotional investment in the relationship is known prior.

Seriously, this is one of those things girls never ever understand how to distinguish. He used you because you let him use you and from the appearance of things did not in any way resist being used. You weren't filtering out bad guys and you found one. I understand its not your fault that hes a prick but its kind of like if I put on a blindfold and dived face forward and got pissed off that there wasn't a pool in front of me.