serious question need advice

[Kulturkampf]

It is good to find common ground....

Just find anything to talk about. It is the simplest thing ever -- if you smile and say something that is not about their tits, you will go far.

"Hey, we smoke the same cigarette..."
"I think this band sucks."
"Hey what drink is that?"

If their reply is anything more than one word or there is any hint of a smile, you're golden.
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Picking women up is like going to bat in baseball.

A great guy at picking woen up is going to still bat only .350, at mos; most guys bat somewhere around what? .280?

And it is also like baseball in that...

If you swing for the fence, you're going to have a lot of fly outs and it isn't going to get you far. You'll get homeruns more often, of course, but it is not going to exactly be conducive.

Just swing the bat at any ball that looks good enough to hit.

And then remember what is and what isn't in your reach; I do not go looking for beauty queens and hip hop girls, why? It would make no sense. I go for girls with similar interests and who are in the same league as me.

But enver be shy. Shy can never be in the equation.

You will never get a hit if you don't swing the bat -- once in a while you get on base by getting walked, but you aren't Brad Pitt, obviously, and it is not as if women fall into your lap.

I make my efforts, I plant my seeds, I do not force or expect, and I have my success.