Being the bigger person

[wreckreation]

no, that is just passive-aggression. It's just gonna eat you up inside. Mediating involves resolution. The problem with couples is they always wind up arguing about how they argue. They cannot step outside themselves to achieve resolution because they wanna keep analyzing everything. You'd be better off staging a bunch of fun arguments so when the real ones come up you both just joke around and not let it get to you. Well, you'd be better off GETTING A DOG and not being in a relationship anyway.