Kahl is right. I've been hearing people going "I could change this or that negative thing about me, but then I wouldn't
be me" which is total bulshit. If someone is asking advice towards getting laid, it's a pretty safe bet he's not getting any by "being himself" so he ought to alter himself to do so. People's personalities are dynamic. There's no set demeanor you're given when you roll your six 3D6s to which you are tied to until you die.
It may cost you some XP penalties, but you can change
