lust, lust, lust

[george]

so i am working this past friday at a rave that has become the highlight of my weekends lately and having a real blast.

normally i work the door and some security, nothing too hard, mostly settling down drunk 20 somethings and checking out the hotties. well there were two girls there this week, and instead of being at the door i was bartending. well these two chicks start making out.

i could not stop looking. i am a pretty experienced guy and have seen a whole lot of wild stuff. but these two chicks just got me all worked up.

now here is the weird part. i did not want to see anything more than them making out. i firmly believe that i could not handle a group sex thing with two girls or such a thing. too much work, and too much chance for me to feel inadequate or damage the rather good relationship i have with nancy.

but, now i want nancy to make the kissy with a girl, and i think she would just to humor me, but if it were ever to happen then her and i and the girl she kissed would be the only ones to ever know, just cause that sort of secrecy would make it even better in my imagination.

now how would one go about selecting a girl for such a thing. one person comes to mind right away, but i love that person way too much, and the completely platonic natue of that love is what makes it possible for me to like that person so much and not piss my wife off, and i would never want to lose the privlege of being her friend.

so that reduces the thing to random strangers, so how do you go about such a process????

suggestions?

[Protoclown]

DON'T DO IT!!!

WATCH "CHASING AMY"

[george]

maybe i just need to get two other chicks to make out for me. that would be cvool, and mostly guilt free.

off to the strip bar agfain

[Jeanette X]

I'd only ask her to make out with chicks for you if you were willing to make out with guys for her.

[FS]

ARE YOU KIDDING, THAT WOULD BE GAY.

[Cybernetico]

:/

Were the girls REALLY good looking. I could see how that would be cool. Don't be TOO worried about "cheating" if it's no officially full-fledged. Have sexual variety might actually strengthen a relationship, for it prevent boredom in it. Just don't get attached to other women, because that's when yur love is in serious jeopardy.

[Cybernetico]

*double post*

PS, do what your heart says. If you do it you may regret it later, but if you don't you'll regret that later too

Love makes you think too hard, I'm gonna give it up

[Jeanette X]

Originally Posted by FS

ARE YOU KIDDING, THAT WOULD BE GAY.

As would be her making out with another girl.

[whoreable]

some people just dont get it

[george]

hmmm.

i was thinking about the making out with a dude thing. uh, i just could not do it. i am super gay friendly, but i just would not enjoy kissing a guy.

[Vibecrewangel]

After finding out I had a girlfriend, my nana said and I quote......"I just don't think I could handle having a girl looking up at me from between my legs."

I love my nana.....



BTW George, I like making the kissies with girls. If the Mock Meet is over my way and you are there I'll have to bring a few to kiss just for you. Assuming of course that Nancy wouldn't mind.

[McClain]

I've seen my wife make out with a girl, but it was one of our best friends - I don't think I could stomach it otherwise. Just so happened that this girl was also my first blowjob in high school. The circle of sex was two steps in either direction.
Had it been some random chick, I guarantee I would've been pissed. I wouldn't like to see her make out with some random guy, why would some random girl be okay?

But in all honesty, it was pretty cool to see those two go at it. I was comfortable with it because I know the girl almost as well as my wife and for the love of god, my dick has been in both of them.

[Vibecrewangel]

McClain -
Wow, you are one of the few people who admits to feeling that way. As a bisexual person I can tell you the feelings are the same for either sex and that means cheating is cheating.

[McClain]

There's a fine line between definitive sexuality with men and women. That said, I could never in good conscience sit back and watch as the girl I'm involved with tongue-kissed anyone - male or female. There's a level of intimacy involved no matter how you flip the coin. It's in our nature as humans to react erratically if someone were to challenge our insecurities.

To make a short explanation long, I suggest to you George that unless you're comfortable with the person she'd make out with, don't pursue it. What if she likes it? A lot? What if her liking it fucks your world up? What if you think of her as dirty for doing it? What if I jerk off to the thought?

[Skulhedface]

I agree wholeheartedly with you McClain. I just don't think I could handle watching a significant other of mine kiss ANYONE else.

[Anonymous]

My goil asked me for permission to play spin the bottle a few weeks ago. After about 20 seconds of getting jealous, I joined in. And had to tongue-kiss an ex-boyfriend of hers. Twice.

The guy wasn't a bad kisser, but he talked afterwards as if having to kiss a guy was the most grave injustice he's ever experienced. But the dude wouldn't stop suckin' on my face when the bottle spun his way. Weird.

And then my girlfriend kept getting asked by gay dudes all night if I was single.

[AChimp]

A dude rubbed me today. Twice.

I think it was a joke. :/

[McClain]

No offense Yockey, but I don't think I could have done that. I don't know how open or serious your relationship is, but if my girl asked for permission to play spin the bottle, I'd decline and question her devotion. Even things as trivial as kissing can the most intimate aspects of a relationship.

And where I came from, if I was playing spin the bottle and it pointed toward a male, it automatically defaulted to the closest female or it was deemed a respin. No questions asked.

Do you consider yourself a strict heterosexual? Not to open the flood gates, but the way I see it is people are one of three things: Straight, bisexual or gay. I don't believe in "bi-curious" or the ever-vague "open sexuality" shit. If a person can't classify themselves as one of the three, said person is in denial and needs to face some facts. Basically what I'm trying to ask is if you're openly bisexual? Because if you claim you're not, I will retort with "You frenched a guy. More than once."

This is not a passing of judgment, BTW.

[Anonymous]

I am very openly bisexual.

Our relationship is serious, but the amount of non-serious flirting that goes on in these parts would only paint me as a dickhead if I refused. So I just did the next best thing and played too.

[Vibecrewangel]

Chojin

[jin]

HE'S MINE, YOU QUEER!!!

[Protoclown]

I know I never could have kissed a guy like that, Eric. I'd have to play the game McClain's way, or not at all.

Of course, I still have never kissed anyone. Ever. I'll be damned if the first person I'm ever going to kiss is a guy!

This isn't homophobia talking, I just don't like the idea of kissing a guy, personally. Of course, I don't know if I could kiss a girl either.

OMG SALIVA IS FUCKING GROSS

[The Unseen]

You all have a good point

[punkgrrrlie10]

Dr. Drew says, this kind of thing is a sign that you are trying to F' up your relationship subconsciously.

Yeah, I see this as just allowing her to cheat.. Get over it and watch some porn together.

[Anonymous]

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