(AUTHORS NOTE: This is a work of
fiction. It is not autobiographical. It is not based on my life,
not even loosely. I will be using the name 'Mr. Smith'
throughout the piece to remind you that this is a character
voice I am using, and not my own voice, the voice of me, 'Mr.
Burbank'. This is above all, not a cry for help. Some of you
will refuse to believe me. Well. I can't help that. That is the
way some of you are. You hear what you want to hear and nothing
I do or say will ever change that. I don't care. I don't care
what you think. I don't care about anything.)
Hello. For those of you who do not know me, my name is Mr.
Smith, or as I'm known around here for the most part, Timmy
Smith's Dad. I'm sure you're all familiar with the loss of
identity that comes as part of the parenting package, and have
grown used to it as I have. Perhaps you even find it comical,
although I myself have not reached that stage yet, and don't
really find ironic humor very amusing in any case.
I want to start by saying that I have Bipolar disorder, not
because it has anything to do with what I asked for time to
speak about tonight, but because I'm not ashamed, any more than
I would be of my red hair and freckles. As I child I was deeply
ashamed of my red hair and freckles, something that was
completely beyond my control, and went so far as to attempt to
dye my hair with shoe polish and bleach my skin with first lemon
juice, and then later bleach. I came to realize that Red Hair
and Freckles are nothing to be ashamed of and neither is Bipolar
disorder, or being the only Jewish family in town except the
Epstein's who are far more observant than we are and can barely
disguise their distaste for us. I am also an asthmatic and
currently unemployed. But today I am here about the Hot Lunch
Program.
As a Jewish, red haired, freckled, unemployed parent of an
exceptional child with Asthma and Bipolar disorder… wait; I did
not mean to imply that Timmy has either Asthma or Bipolar
disorder. I mean, he does have Asthma, the kids in love with
that inhaler, it's like a security blanket for him, I seriously
think he doesn't know it's been empty for over a month, but I
don't know if he has Bipolar Disorder or not. We don't know. His
mother and I. Or maybe she knows and isn't telling me. She
insists the Pediatrician will not return our calls, but if I
call her a LIAR, which is simply the God's OWN TRUTH, all hell
breaks loose.
I am here as a parent. A Jewish parent with Bipolar Disorder to
be sure, and yes, Asthma, Red hair, Freckles, Irritable Bowel
Syndrome, but most particular, a parent of a child in this
school system. I say 'in this school system' because as a
parent, of course I have a child. All you parents will know what
I mean. They are the joy of our lives, the reason we get up in
the morning, the source of the vast majority of our debts and
does yours have some sort of inborn, mutant radar for your nuts?
Because, Christ, mine does. Nine, ten times a day that kid hurls
himself into my lap and damned if his pointy little elbows or
knees or chin doesn't smash straight into my nuts! It's very
painful! I tell him over and over, 'Jesus Christ, Timmy, watch
out for your old man's nuts!' I swear to God, he's going to pop
them one day! You can die from that. You can. Popped nuts. It's
a cause of death.
In any case. Last week I had the opportunity to take the school
up on it's invitation to 'have lunch with my child'. In fact, as
Principle Conners brought to my attention, I have apparently
taken this opportunity every day for over a week now and that
while he appreciates the dire financial straights I have found
myself in since my dismissal from whatever the name of the soul
crushing cubicle farm I sacrificed the last twelve years of my
life to I should in no way continue to use my child's school
cafeteria as my own personal 'soup kitchen'. Be that as it may,
I have come here tonight to say, with all due respect to your
kitchen staff, the 'Hot Lunch Program' is neither 'Hot' nor
'Lunch'! My apologies to… to… Oh, shit, who the hell was the guy
that said the 'blank blank is neither blank nor blank'. FUCK!
Oscar Wilde? I want to say Oscar Wilde, but I think it may have
been whatsherface, that bitch at the Algonquin Round Table
everybody made such a big deal of. Crap, crap, crap, crap, crap,
I'm thinking, I'm thinking, all I'm getting is Jaye .P. Morgan
who was that dipsomaniac slut on the fucking Gong Show JESUS!
WHAT?! I KNOW THAT, I KNOW THAT, I know J.P. Morgan was a
Financier, she took her name from him as A FUCKING JOKE AND I
NOW SHE WASN'T AT THE ALGONQUIN ROUND TABLE, SHE WAS ON THE GONG
SHOW! I JUST SAID THAT! DOROTHY PARKER, DOROTHY PARKER, IT WAS
DOROTHY PARKER!
What? Oh, fuck you. I have Tourette's syndrome. Well, I might,
you don't know. Maybe I'm just well medicated and the cursing
only becomes uncontrollable when some bag of shit interrupts me.
Aren't you Janey Comstock's Mom? Oh, I know all about you. Kids
talk at the lunch table, Ms. Comstock. Oh yes they do, they say
the damndest things so don't go thinking you're better than me,
because my problems are medical in nature. And don't sex addict
me. Sex addict, sex addict, sex addict, what do you think this
is, Oprah? This is not Oprah Ms. Comstock. This is the PTO.
Well. That about wraps it up for me, as I understand the ground
rules limit parents to five minutes and in addition I see the
police have arrived. So. In closing, let me just add, this I not
over. Oh, and I have a short film debuting on Cable Access
channel four on Saturday at three fifteen AM! And whatever
you've heard the vast majority of the nudity has a big blurry
spot over my penis. OH CHRIST! THOSE AREN'T COPS!
(AUTHOR'S AFTERWORD: I want to make
clear that I have never addressed my children's PTA. I am
employed and I have two daughters, not one son. While I wrote
this, and it is in the first person, that does not mean the
person speaking and the author are the same person. If you need
to take issue with that, I would refer you to my publisher. Yes,
publisher. That is not an over dignified word for our
relationship. I don't care what you think. I don't care about
the opinions of people I hate. You know who you are.)
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